hoW to Become More sUccesful pErson....?

Every people dream to be a successful person but don't know how. This ten step can help you to become successful person,,,,,,,

• JUDGES PEOPLE WITH KINDNESS

we usually judges ourselves by our ideals and other by their actions.There is vast discrepancy between the two.

• REMEMBER TO EXPRESS GRATITUDE, BUT DONT EXPECT IT FROM OTHERS

if someone has helped you, has been a good friend or has lent a hand at difficult time in your life.,remember to thank that person.

• LEARN TO ACCEPT CRITICISM WITHOUT TAKING OFFENSE

the only perfect human who ever lived was betrayed by one of his disciples, denied by another,doubted by a third and misunderstood by all others

• FOCUS ON THE NEEDS OF OTHER PEOPLE

one fundamental human need is to fell significant. In a world where most human have little chance of becuming famous, people will do almost anything to be noticed.Pay attention to people to make them feel significantly.

• HANDLE INTERUPTIONS CREATIVELY

you are in midst of something that is important to you.Your time is limited and you have deadlines to meet.The only people who are interrupted are those whose life and work are of some significance.

• LEARN THE VALUE OF SILENCE AND BREVITY

''silent is golden''..silence or brevity can be a powerful response.

• GIVE A LITTLE EXTRA

attitude is important. It can change your life,if applied as a lifelong principle.

• WORK TOWARD THE GOAL OF ACCEPTING & LOVING YOURSELF

proper self-love is not egotism.you are entitled to love your self.You can love another person only to the degree that you love yourself.

• ACCEPT YOUR EMOTION AS VALID

the  strongest emotion God has given us is the anger.Anger is from God, divine in origin.We must accept our anger  for what it is.,a survival instinct but learn how to control so it is not destructive.

• ACCEPT LIFE

Life isn't easy but it is preferable to the alternative.There are 3 step in resolving any problem.
-awareness(we must aware of the problem before it can be resolve)
-accept(we should accept all problem first before resolving)
-action(then we think what action we can take to settle the problem)


:)from the book ''THE ART OF GETTING ALONG WITH PEOPLE''
:)BY ''cecil g.osborne,d.d''